Pam BaroroBreakups can be emotionally draining experiences. While it might seem tempting to retreat from the world, exploring new places can offer a much-needed distraction and opportunity for personal growth.
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Instead of dwelling on the past, consider embarking on a solo adventure or a trip with friends to one of the Philippines’ beautiful destinations. Whether you’re drawn to the tunning nature views of Sagada, the vibrant culture of Cebu, or the tropical vibe of La Union, a change of scenery can provide a fresh perspective and help you heal.
1. Sagada
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Sagada has long been a popular outdoor destination for Filipinos but it further rose to fame after it was featured in the indie movie That Thing Called Tadhana. You might even want to recreate that famous scene where Mace went to Mt. Kiltepan to watch the sunrise and scream her heart out. Then again, you could just savour the beautiful view right in front of you.
2. Batanes
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Of all the Philippine destinations included in this list, Batanes is perhaps the most difficult and most expensive place to get into; if you are lucky enough, you might just get a discounted round-trip ticket just like this solo female traveller who spent 5 days in Batanes with only ₱8,000 (all-in) budget. But, I can guarantee that the hassle and the expense will all be worth it because it will feel like you have been transported somewhere else. And, once you are there, don’t forget to drop by Honesty Coffee Shop — there are still a lot of honest people in the world, although your cheating ex-boyfriend might not be one of them!
3. Talicud Island
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If being able to find some “alone” time in a new place with a beautiful view is something that you are aiming for, try checking out Talicud Island, which is one of the islands composing the Island Garden of Samal. The island boasts of unspoilt beaches that are not too crowded so you can have some time to simply get lost in your thoughts.
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4. Siquijor
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If your ex-boyfriend or girlfriend cheated on you, why not head to the local witch so you can have your sweet revenge? Kidding. While the mysterious island is best known for the mangkukulams, what other people do not know is that Siquijor offers unspoilt beaches, caves, and waterfalls that are sure to make you forget about your heartache.
5. Boracay
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But if you would rather not want to be left alone with your thoughts, why not head on to Boracay and enjoy numerous water activities during the day and exciting parties at night? You can tag along your girlfriends so everyone can have a memorable night or you can simply brave it out and join the beach parties solo. Who knows, the real love of your life might also be partying there, too.
6. La Union
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What’s another great way to channel your heartache? Learn something new like surfing, for example. If you happen to visit La Union, be sure to make your way to San Juan which is famous among surfers. You might not get the chance to be alone there considering that there are a lot of backpackers and surfers who are sure to chat up with you. Regardless, you will love the distraction and you’ll forget him (or her) pretty soon.
7. Cebu
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If you want a bit more challenge than just surfing then head to Cebu and go on a canyoneering adventure. Spend your entire day hopping, jumping, climbing, swimming on rocks and water. Once you have conquered that, there’s pretty much nothing else you can’t do, including forgetting your ex!
8. Banaue
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If you’re seeking a more adventurous experience than simply lounging on the beach, Banaue offers a unique opportunity: trekking to the iconic Rice Terraces. These ancient, man-made structures, carved into the mountainsides, are a UNESCO World Heritage Site. The trek is challenging, but the breathtaking views of the terraced fields, often shrouded in mist, make it well worth the effort. As you hike through the lush rice paddies and encounter local villages, you’ll be immersed in the rich cultural heritage of the Ifugao people. And amidst the stunning scenery and the focus on the present moment, you might just find that the memories of your past relationship fade away, allowing you to move forward with renewed hope and excitement.
9. Bohol
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Bohol, known for its Chocolate Hills and tarsiers, offers a unique blend of adventure and tranquility. Explore the underground river system of Cabagnow Cave Pool, where you can swim and marvel at the stalactites and stalagmites. For a more challenging adventure, hike to the peak of the Chocolate Hills for panoramic views of the surrounding landscape. As you immerse yourself in the natural beauty and tranquility of Bohol, you’ll find yourself leaving behind the worries and heartache of the past, making way for a brighter future.
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The only way to nurse a broken heart is to move forward, and what better way to do that than by visiting these awesome spots in the Philippines?
