I can’t help but wonder—has my recent Europe trip confirmed that I’m fully adulting now? The things I once loved as a carefree 19-year-old student now leave me drained, questioning my choices, or muttering, “I’m too old for this!”
If you’ve ever caught yourself swapping all-nighters for early check-ins or choosing comfort over chaos, you might be experiencing the natural shift that comes with travel and adulting. So, let’s dive into 10 key differences between travelling as a student and travelling as a full-fledged working adult—see how many you can relate to!
Hostels are no longer for me
As a working adult, a good hotel is always appreciated.
I made this statement after my trip to South Korea last year, where I had a rather unpleasant stay at a hostel with its weird inhabitants. Essentially, my roommates wanted to leave the windows open for ventilation and a lot of mosquitoes came flying in. As a result, I had a sleepless and itchy night. There was also a strange lady who called me ‘Miss Sing-a-poo’ whenever she saw me. It was kinda freaky when I met her along the way back from the toilet.
Therefore – no more sharing of rooms with random strangers and tolerating their snoring and weird habits. No more tolerating shared bathrooms with strange-looking hair of dubious origins on the floor. I just want to laze around, do what I want, whenever I feel like it, and I don’t want to be judged for it. I would prefer some privacy rather than having bedtime conversations with other strangers and travellers, or strange travellers.
Also read: 5 Plush Hotels That are Taking Good Sleep Very Seriously
12-hour flights have become intolerable
I hate long flights. My neck aches terribly when I lie on one side and try to sleep. So do my knees after some time. I don’t really care how awesome the entertainment system is. I just want to… Get out of the plane.
Back in those ‘student’ days, I’d get so excited about taking the plane, trying my best to watch all the movies on the entertainment system to get my money’s worth. Not to mention drinking all the wine and beer that’s available. Now, I just ask for water and some tea.
I have developed an immutable relationship with coffee
A cappuccino in the morning is a must when travelling.
Before I left for my trip, I used to function on 2-4 cups of coffee in office everyday. I thought things would be different after I started travelling. Nope. I found myself yearning for a cuppa every morning. My brain yearns for a siesta almost every afternoon. While waiting for lunch at a restaurant, my mouth unconsciously stretches into a yawn. That also tends to happen after seeing the 90th monument, painting, or portrait in a day.
I will now pay for good food
I appreciate good food like these awesome oysters we had in Lisbon.
Back in the days, with a tiny student stipend, I used to go around hunting for the cheapest places to eat. It’s easier in Asia because there is always street food, which is affordably priced and tastes really good.
In Europe, good food tends to be found in restaurants, and now with a steady stream of income, I really don’t mind having some of that. I’d rather pay a premium for good food than have the cheapest paella in Barcelona, only to find out that it’s a tourist trap.
I no longer need to see everything
The Royal Palace of Madrid was nice but when asked if I would like to visit another palace in the suburbs, I said no.
Some places, like the umpteenth historical monument and museum in Madrid, are just not worth the energy, time, and laborious climb up the stairs. I’d rather go back to the hotel and have a siesta, or chill at a cafe sipping a cup of cappuccino.
Shop first, regret later
El Corte Images, that’s where we got the luggage!
It was only in Spain when Zara had an awesome sale did I discovered my love for shopping. The other thing I learnt from the many Zara sale outlets is that you got to buy something you like at first sight. Do the regretting later if you have to because you will have no regrets. It’s true. It is a pain to go back to the same place to find the same shoe or dress you left behind. It’s even worse in a sale – chances are, that awesome top you left behind was gone in two seconds.
Backpacking now wears me out
Yes, I gave in and bought a luggage.
Yes, I have learnt that backpacks are not the best tools for storing shopping bags. It can be rather strenuous on the shoulders and you’ve got to unpack every single item each time you reach a new hotel or guesthouse. With nice luggage, the shopping stays obediently in one corner and can be easily compressed when you sit on the luggage.
I’ve cut back on the alcohol
Fancy a Budweiser dark?
The beer in the Czech Republic was so cheap – 2.20 Euro (SGD 3.18) for a pint. It was the same as the price of water. In my younger years, I would be happy to gulp down that beer since it is much cheaper than in my home country. I am now aware of the potential consequences of my actions. It will come in the form of a bulging tummy that will take aeons to flatten, so I now restrain myself, and opt for juice instead.
Long bus journeys are now intolerable
Long-distance bus rides can be a challenge, especially without any stops.
Yes, it is very tough. My longest record was during a 14-hour bus ride across the Nepal-Indian Border to Kathmandu. And now, even six hours is pushing it.
Being late is not cool
Tickets that cost us 89.15 Euros each. It was quite painful for us to have been late. Lucky for us, there were other travel alternatives!
I used to be that super cool traveller, running across airports from terminal to terminal to catch a flight, and jumping onto trains at the very last moment. But on a recent trip, I missed a train (one is far too many), came close to missing a flight, and a long-distance bus. I never ever want to do so again. It’s not just about the cost involved – which can be very, very pricey – it’s also about the inconvenience caused to others as well. If you’re going to be late, then I’m going to leave without you. Period.
Also read: 4 Tips to Score Business Class Flights For Cheap
I guess as a working adult, having more freedom to spend does change one’s travel preferences and tolerance for things. Also, after several months of being engaged in a routine office job – it’s nice to spend the money you have worked so hard to earn. Relaxing and enjoying the moment, especially since you have come so far, has become more important.
Do you find that you have changed as a traveller, during your school days and compared to now, when you have started working? Do share your thoughts – I would love to hear from you.
Contributed by The Travelling Squid.